Here’s the thing about cross stitch—it’s supposed to bring you joy, not guilt. Yet so many of us have that one project (or ten) lurking in the cupboard, making us feel bad for not finishing it. Let me tell you right now: you don’t have to finish every project. It’s okay to start something new when inspiration strikes!
Sometimes, a pattern we were once obsessed with just doesn’t spark that same excitement anymore. Or maybe we bit off more than we could chew with a gigantic full-coverage piece. Whatever the reason, setting aside a project doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It just means your creative energy is steering you toward something else—and that’s not only okay, it’s brilliant!
Here’s why this rule is so important: cross stitch is about the process, not just the product. The joy of stitching lies in the time you spend with your needle and thread, the way it helps you unwind, and the creativity it unlocks. If forcing yourself to finish something feels more like a chore than a hobby, it’s time to give yourself permission to move on.
And guess what? Those unfinished projects will still be there if you ever want to come back to them. Sometimes taking a break is exactly what you need to fall back in love with a design. Other times, they might remain unfinished forever—and that’s okay too. Cross stitch is your creative playground, and the last thing it should do is weigh you down.
So, if you’ve been staring at a project that’s just not doing it for you anymore, consider this your sign to set it aside and start something that excites you. Dig through your stash, browse new patterns, or maybe even pick up one of our cheeky Spruce designs to bring some fresh energy to your stitching time.
Because, at the end of the day, your stitching journey is yours to enjoy. Let go of the guilt and let the fun begin. Happy stitching!
